There comes a point

I'm so frustrated with people who are refusing to wake up to the reality of their situation. Seriously, how much more does a person have to take before they realize the person they are with is not the right one? Why subject yourself to so much emotional abuse, unhappiness, and fear of if he or she loves you over and over and over again? I am so sick of people who refuse to look at the reality of their life and make a change. If something is consistently not working, it is time for a change. If someone only keeps talking without acting, then it is time for a change. If you keep crying over the same thing, it is time for a change. If you keep hoping and getting disappointed, it is time for a change. Get the heck out of a relationship if you are more unhappy than happy. Get the hell out of a relationship if you are doing all of the giving. People are sick of hearing the same problems caused by the same person over and over and over again. Most of all people get tired of hearing complaints and the sadness and you are not doing anything about it. Find the courage to leave someone who obviously does not care about you. There is more to life than catering to one person. Put yourself first, love yourself first, and find yourself first or you. If you don't you will always be stuck in an unhealthy relationship b/c you will always for the other person because you don't have any idea of your own wants and needs.