Friday, January 30, 2009

My crush

He is not married
He does not have a g/f, nor a b/f

He wears a great looking fedora

He wears pinstripes
He is tall and has a mustache
He is intelligent
He likes wine
He cares about Richmond and it's people






I first met Robert at the Carystreet Wine Festival. The second time was at the Mayoral Debates. Just recently I walked past him in Carytown and was struck again by his presence, his fedora, and how nice he was dressed.

*Sigh* Mr. Robert Grey we will meet again one day. I work at a law library and you are a lawyer, it was meant to be! I'll research for you anything you want.

My obsession for awhile

The Shiba Inu's puppy cam, it was a sad day when the pups were all sold and taken off the air. I love dogs and I definiely love puppies and this puppy cam gave me absolute joy. The little buggers running around, chomping on toys and each other, and sleep peacefully, *sigh*. So now, I'll confess, I still go on the link to the old pup cam just to look at the pictures that display of the little one's growing up. You can still check this out too:

http://cdn1.ustream.tv/swf/4/viewer.45.swf?cid=317016




Now for all of my Cat friends the new thing is the kitty cam. It does not give me the same joy but I thought it might help other's get through their work day. So here you go, become obsessed.




Live TV by Ustream

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

My next boyfriend


Is this man.

I don't know who you are but I'm judging


And I'm only judging this person named Lady Gaga because she is a public figure in the music world. How? How come she has to dress like an idiot and parade herself as an musical artist? Has anyone heard her music and can stick up for this? She annoys this shit out of me because of the way she dresses, poses for photos, and the stage name she selected. I get so annoyed b/c I will randomly see her pictures on the websites I browse at work such as people.com and usmagazine.com. Maybe I should just give up looking at entertainment websites but I have to admit I do like the petty celebrity gossip. Lady Gaga however, I can really do without. Jesus it's even embarrassing for me to type her name and say it! So how can she even roll with it? Put some pants on woman!

Why I love this band so much

Band:Yo La Tengo
Title: Green Arrow
Album: I Can Hear the Heart Beating As One

This song makes me feel and think about:

Summer nights
Tears
Wistfulness
Loneliness
Memories
Hope
Thoughts
Silence
Summer Love




Green Arrow - Yo La Tengo

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

The Asshole

I have had many discussions with my girlfriends about why we like guys who are "assholes". We are attractive, smart, and out-going girls who end up dating guys who treat us like crap. We know the dude is being an asshole, or is one, but that doesn't stop us from dating this type of guy. Why can't the "nice" guy be good enough for us? I don't think it means we are settling if we do date a guy who treats us properly. However, I think it is the fact that we do like the challenge of thinking we can change the asshole into a nice guy....if this was to ever happen (which I have not seen one case where it has) would this mean we would get bored of the converted asshole or stick with him? The best place I found answers to some of our questions about this predicament is at this blog website.


http://www.datingthoughts.com/2008/04/29/why-do-girls-go-for-assholes/

Hmmmm.....?

Hmmmm....I think...no...can't be??
http://richmond.craigslist.org/mis/1008098519.html

Monday, January 26, 2009

Bailey and Amy made my day today:-)


It's the little things that can make you feel that things will be okay. Sometimes you don't have to look for them but sometimes you do. Just do what is right for you and things will work out. People will be people and friends will always be friends. Keep going and keep searching. Always know you are not alone and take comfort in that.
Your person will be found, whether you find him or he finds you.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

"Water In a Teapot" by Mia and Jonah

Lyrics:
Listen and read.

Water in a Teapot - Mia and Jonah
(A song that fits perfectly. I had to try and figure these out myself because I can't find them anywhere on the internet. I think I got it mostly right. I would be very interested in seeing how close I was to the actual lyrics. Let me know if you can find them.)

It's summer time and colder
and there's only room enough for shoulders (?)
and they smile like they're together (?)
And this weary winter weather,
Is wearing thinner then the promise
of tomorrow as a beacon
and hope it rains hard on the bed.
and the cause is just by speakin.
cause you could be the pathway
where the holes all go underneath it.
And if I fall and find fear one more time,
I might decide to keep it.
So I am trying to tread lightly,
but happy just happens to mean (?)
I AM not afraid to bite mean,
but you can slay with me your beauty
(CHORUS)
Cause time is water in a teapot,
and you swear you hear it whistling.
Is it calling you away from me,
can I persuade you not to listen?
and I will fill your ears with music,
to distract you from the sound.
and if you've got to go, then go,
BUT know, I hope you stick around!

(End Chorus)

And the Cherry blossom trees
are blowing naked in them meadows
and I think I am like the branches,
and you are the pink peddles.
I am rooted to the soil
The wind calls and I stay grounded,
but one more word and you're off like a bird,
and I'm stranded here confounded.
And I have read you're constitution,
your honesty is commendable,
but your eyes don't seem so resolute,
baby maybe your truth is bendable,
I will not strip away your boundries,
just let me stretch them like a moon beam,
I'm not asking for forever,
just to keep to a room in your dream (?)

(CHORUS repeats)

Well now I'm getting in my sail boat,
and I'm armed for (?) (?) (?)
maybe I will just round the distance
you've seen me way around the bey, baby
forget those words I told you,
(It was late and we were drinking)
It just felt so good to hold you,
that I started in all the thinking.

Cause time is water in a teapot,
and I swear I hear it whistling.
Oh I drink it while the water's hot,
it's the only kind of livin'.
So I've untied my sailboat from the shore
from your familiar sands(sounds)
Baby you're not bound to me,
but I sure hope you stick around.

I hope you stick around.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Listen up folks!

Am I?

being too dramatic?

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Sad news

It is such a sad and incomprehensible thing.
I never new anyone who passed away until my Grandfather did in August of 2006.
Then Charles passed away in March of 2007.
Now January 2007 my old next door neighbor, Margaret, is passing away from cancer. Margaret was a sweet lady who I would always see call in her black cat when it was time to go to bed. She loved going to Dot's Back Inn with her friend Cheryl. She always asked about Bailey and was really just a good down to earth woman. She will be missed and I am especially sorry for her daughter Penny who I randomly worked with briefly at the Glen Allen Public Library. Margaret lived by herself in this big 2 story brick house across the street from my parents. It's strange to think she will not be there anymore. That is the thing about death is realizing you will never see that person again. This just makes me want to enjoy life even more and do all I can before it is my time to go. Really it is all about working on being happy as much as you can.

1/20/2009

Got the day off to celebrate the inauguration.

It all started at 8am at Joe's Inn (with a brief 1.5 hour stay at Matt's for more mimosa's and to watch the swearing in) and the day lasted until 3:30. I did have the obamalette which consisted of mozzarella and arugula. Add some siracha sauce to that and it was a hit! We all took pictures with the life sized Obama cardboard figure. We took some shots and said good riddance to W.
I had so much fun celebrating with people from all ages and backgrounds. The bartenders and servers were so awesome there. They completely hooked it up and we all had a great day of cheering, chatting, and day drinking.

My favorite part of his speech:

"For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter's courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent's willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate. "

Rev. Joseph Lowery also killed it:
"we ask you to help us work for that day when black will not be asked to get back, when brown can stick around -- when yellow will be mellow -- when the red man can get ahead, man -- and when white will embrace what is right."

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Jealousy.

I am feeling jealous and I hate myspace and facebook.
I think I might just facebook-suicide now.
Hmmph.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Good things come in 3's

1) I was conflicted over whether I should call in sick for Inauguration because bottom line-lying is bad karma. So today I sucked it up and asked my boss if I could take off tomorrow and she said yes! Woot woot!
2) I found out Wed. is my last day of my 6 month probationary period and they want me to stay! Yay for not getting fired!
3) I had a meeting with my 2 direct supervisors and I was told that they are aware that I have my MLS now and know I don't want to be stuck in the position as a library assistant. Since I am an "up and coming librarian" the 2 head honchos of the library are going to work on getting me a professional librarian position because they want me to stay here.


I think I'm going to cry with relief.

Really?

Tina Turner
All on Saturday
-Saturday morning walked dogs at the B.A.R.K Farm-met nice people and crazy people (such as the woman who only commented on the alpha bitch dogs and the dogs who are bitches)
-Went to RVC and hung out with an old volleyball friend and ended up seeing a lot of people from my past who I used to play vball with.
-When walking into RVC I was stopped by a girl and told I should become a Bone Marrow Donor and went into the this whole convo about how important it is and what the testing consists of-Completely bothered by this girl and her approach considering...
-Went to BW3's for an hour
-Went to a house warming party and met a guy name Charlie Inchlong-yes, that was his name
-Went to a drag queen show at Godfrey's and danced there after the show-love dancing at gay bars b/c the guys are not trying to dance up on the girls, ha!
-Went to Comfort and spent the rest of the evening talking to my Jake Gyllenhaal look-alike crush of a couple of years-All of you who have been to Edo's with me know who I am talking about.
-Get pulled over for expired tags-I didnt realize they had expired in Oct.; can't find my registration; so one ticket for expired registration and another ticket for not being able to produce current registration; told by the police officers that Amanda and I can either call a cab, a friend, or walk home b/c they wouldn't let me drive home; Then the cops go to the car in front of me and ask the person to step out; This person is someone who I work with which was so random, embarrassing for both of us, and actually funny. Anyways so this person had to go back to where ____ came from.
-Made it to Amanda's and crashed at her place.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Friday, January 16, 2009

My other little world in Richmond

November 2003, I go in for an interview with this girl Anica and this guy Steven we all get hired as servers at Baker's Crust in Carytown. This was the start of my never ending story of quitting, going back, quitting, going back, quitting, going back and so on. Yes, I am back at it. When I need extra cash I go back to a place that I know and don't have to waste time training at. Actually I did try to find a different 2nd job but was unable to find anything due to this shitty economy but whatever. It's the shittiest place to work at but again whatever, *sigh*. Come see me only when I am bartending but not when I'm serving.

I have met the best people at this place which is probably a tiny part of why I keep going back there.

Circa 2003-2004- "The A Team"

Charles-Bright smile, positive energy, and someone who ended up becoming a huge part of my life.

Ashley-We bonded over her eating a granola bar b/c we worked Sun. and Sat. mornings together and they were 8-9 hour shifts with no break. I though I was the only other server who had to bring in a snack but nope I found a friend who also couldn't go 8 hours w/out eating and wasn't going to risk buying food from the restaurant during the middle of a shift. To this day we are still the best of friends and I am going to be in her wedding.

Bridget-Bouncy long blond hair, 1st person to introduce herself to me, and the youngest of the crew but probably the most mature. We are now roommates

Emily-In and out due to going to school In NC, total spaz, incredibly nice, and pulled off her great style in a way none of us could get away with when wearing a uniform. We are still dear friends and random hang out buddies.

Isaac-the one who got me an application, told me not to apply, I did anyways, and we always got into fights over tables b/c we both wanted lots of them. We are going to our high school reunion together.

Aaron-Flirty, Suave, and highly intelligent. He could win over the ladies with his charm and the men with his wit. I think he always banked. He just graduated law school and passed the bar.

Dana-the girl all of us other girls loved to hate but who we had to respect because she was a good server and fun to gossip with. Don't know where she is anymore

Anica-loud, a rebel, and the first person I met who actually got a lip tattoo. Moved to SF.

Sherri-An old Richmond scenester who taught me a lot about life and especially how I would not want to lead my own.

Shannon, Sonya, Megan, Eric-The managers who caused as much drama and gossip as the servers did.
Shannon-has two kids now and might still be a wine manager at The Boathouse
Sonya-works at Panera Bread as a Manager
Megan-Works at The Boathouse (I think)

Circa 2004-2005

Catie Z.-Laid back server, fun parties, and such a nice person. I just went to her wedding this last fall and she is teaching in Seattle.

Lori-Beautiful curly red hair, always left her dishes in the Bakery wait station which drove us all crazy, and a total hippy. Her and her boyfriend Justin just had a baby boy and I hiked with her this past fall when she was 8 months pregnant!

Joy-Tiny, liked to knit, Halloween 2004, and the so so nice! I went to her wedding 2 summers ago and now she lives in PA with her husband and 2 boys.

Circa 2005-2006

Didn't really work very much during these years but it was interesting point of time because the crew was very dark and different and I didn't have really any connections with anyone during that time.
This would be a good point to interject the 3 leading characters not officially apart of Baker's Crust.

Bernard-Crazy goon who you will see ride his bike around or walk around Cary Town wearing a Navy jacket or a Brown Parka. Anyone who works at Baker's Crust will meet him and will always be annoyed by him. He's really just crazy and you have to just accept him for who he is. I now live 2 streets over from Bernard and he now knows where I live, shit.

Shirley-little old lady who would come in and sit at the bar. She had a hunch back due to her age and was this town's biggest alcoholic. She would start drinking at Ruby Tuesdays in Willow Lawn and make her way down to Baker's Crust. She had a book she would carry with recipes for the type of drinks she would want her bartenders to make her. A fiest little lady who we all took care of. The last I heard she was in a nursing home.

Bill-The millionaire. Drinks a diet coke with lemon. Likes lots of napkins. Comes in to the restaurant every single day for breakfast and sometimes for lunch too! This is unless he is on vacation. Nice guy but completely arrogant. Has 3 kids and a wife. Lives in this modern house on Monument and Boulevard and owns the one next door too. He owns lots of property in Richmond b/c he owns River City Realty. We all wanted to wait on him b/c he would leave us $10 dollar tip on a $5 tab.

Circa 2007-Present

Desiree-I thought she was going to be my competition but she ended up being a good friend. Hard worker, likes to gossip (and I like to gossip with her), and doesn't take shit from anyone. If you see her arms waving at a table you know those customers are in for it and not the other way around. We worked together last night and but also finally got herself a "real" job elsewhere!

Cristina-Biker, a gossip too (and Des and I like to gossip with her), the most responsible employee I think that place has ever had work their bakery. We are friends and she is my manager. We worked together last night too and is looking for a full time job elsewhere!

Meredith-Coffee drinks, husky voice, and one who has the most unique outlook on people and life. She is a flight attendant, living in AZ. I miss her.
George-I don't think I have ever seen him angry, his g/f was a server who I used to work with during circa 2003, now he is a manager at Baker's Crust and awesome to work with. I need to call her back.

Kenny-always heard about him when I would work my Sunday shift but never met him officially, I worked with him maybe just one time, and then he ended up being the only guy I ever dated from that place. He finally got of BC too.

I like beards but I'm a sucker for a mustache

I can't believe the explosion of beards over the past few months. I like them because of various reasons...

HOWEVER!

Like anything fashionable not everyone can sport a mustache. Just last weekend I saw this guy I know who has one, kind of but not really. It's kind of thin and splotchy, ick! It looked so bad and all I'm thinking is, "Dude, not everyone can pull off a beard so just shave it off"! I actually felt sorry for him because I wasn't going to say that to his face and I'm sure nobody else is either. So here is another idea grow a mustache and be a little be unique in this world of beards.

I'm not knocking the beard because a lot of you guys look super hot and manly with one. It's just for those who might want to try something new, go for the mustache!

Side note: A handlebar mustache is very ideal and even more sexy.

Read this article for inspiration:

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/08/fashion/08CODES.html

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Current life






I like when you find a song that you feel relates to your life. Then you can listen to it over and over again because you think the lyrics are exactly what you need to hear to feel comforted.

Be Happy and most of all just be NICE and

to help figure this all out try singing along to a nice little tune...

I recommend a song by Ryan Adams

Pearls On A String

I love the lyrics....

Blue eyes for miles
Pretty as a peach
Glorious kind and always on time
Never far outta reach
Tomorrow's on it's way
And there's always new songs to sing
Glorious kind, always on time
Pearls on a string

Soft, precious and easy
Under the sea
If you dive down far enough to the bottom
Look around and you will see
Tomorrow's on it's way
And there's always new songs to sing

Glorious kind, always on time
Pearls on a string
Glorious kind, and always on time
Pearls on a string

The sun shinin' down
The children laugh and play
Glorious kind, and always on time
Out there in the day
Tomorrow's on it's way
And there's always new songs to sing

Glorious kind, and always on time
Pearls on a string
Glorious kind, always on time
Pearls on a string
Glorious kind, always on time
Pearls on a string

Glorious kind, always on time
Pearls on a string

A day at the job

I like to come into work, turn on my space heater, and put on my headphones and listen to music while I catalog books. Work lets me create play lists and/or listen to music on Myspace, Last.fm, Slacker.com and now this awesome website....

http://www.imeem.com

I like listening to music while working and imeem is one of the best Websites I've come across recently b/c of the selection of music you can find. I would highly recommend it to all of my music buddies!

So create your own profile and exchange music with me because you all know how much I like mixes and finding new music to listen to!

http://www.imeem.com/people/Iiyyt7M

Leave Maggie Alone!


I thought she rocked it on the red carpet! The dress is unique and edgy! Her hair, makeup, and shoes look super fab AND she can totally pull off the animal print (which I typically don't like but the colors of this dress are wonderful!).

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Dream.

I just need to write this down somewhere.
Here is good.
I just remembered, while putting on my socks, that I had this dream last night that the bottom of my feet were crumbling off...like dry soil. I kept picking it away and there were worms. The worms had been eating at my feet! It was so disgusting. I kept picking the soiled flesh away until the fresh, bleeding, healthy tissue remained.
Weird.
I wonder what THAT is suppose to mean.
Gross.
[Shivers]

Librarians at Lunch

Sally:
Talked about Susanne English the UNITED STATES COURT OF APPEALS FOR THE THIRD CIRCUIT Librarian

Style Weekly-Sally likes Style Weekly because they posted William's picture and Lost ad for free. (William is her cat who was lost for 3 months and then finally came home one day)

Tofu-Sally found a new type of tofu that is packaged and doesn't have to be refrigerated

An audiobook she forgot she had and is now listening to it in her car. She is happy she found this audiobook.

Sally told us about this book Street Gang: The Complete History of Sesame Street by Michael Justin Davis
http://www.buy.com/prod/street-gang-the-complete-history-of-sesame-street/q/loc/106/207491319.html

Gail:
Told us how the Library of Virginia Reference Librarian lives in her apartment building.

She has a cottage in Massachusetts on the water that needs a new roof.

She wants my number so in case it snows, she can call me to pick her up.

Antique Road Show-stories from that show she found interesting

Amy:
Richmond Public Library Reference Librarian who found 3 books previously owned by Thomas
Jefferson. I found the story to be super cool.

Discussed why I don't like audiobooks

B.A.R.K Farm-How I am excited about volunteering there

Asked why U of R is not closed on MLK, outrageous!

Talked about how I really like the Library of Virginia and how good the collection was for me when I was in school.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Hi Amy L...just checking in.



Hi Amy Lackey...just checking in.
* I'm sleepy and sore from dodgeball, running up the stairs, biking, working twelve hours, infatuation with a certain someone.
* I ate too much cheese at sidewalk.
* Am I being true to myself?
* It's okay to say you don't like something. You don't always have to pretend you want to do something just to please someone else. Really, it's okay.
* My brain hurts from taking pictures. My brain is sore. My feet are sore. My middle is full.
* Remember...kindness and compassion.
* Seriously take that keg back. Can you even take it back after this long? I am embarrassed now.
* It's okay to go slow. I always go too fast.
* Why, why, why? What's going to happen? When? What, what, what? Just breathe and live.
* I am a good person.
Love you,
Love me.

How I love friendships, dogs, and now elephants!

"Just two living creatures who somehow managed to look past their immense differences".

http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=4696315n

Thursday, January 8, 2009

What to do...

Reason and Passion- The Prophet by Khalil Gibran


And the priestess spoke again and said: "Speak to us of Reason and Passion."
And he answered saying:

Your soul is oftentimes a battlefield, upon which your reason and your judgment wage war against passion and your appetite.

Would that I could be the peacemaker in your soul, that I might turn the discord and the rivalry of your elements into oneness and melody.
But how shall I, unless you yourselves be also the peacemakers, nay, the lovers of all your elements?

Your reason and your passion are the rudder and the sails of your seafaring soul.
If either your sails or our rudder be broken, you can but toss and drift, or else be held at a standstill in mid-seas.
For reason, ruling alone, is a force confining; and passion, unattended, is a flame that burns to its own destruction.

Therefore let your soul exalt your reason to the height of passion; that it may sing;
And let it direct your passion with reason, that your passion may live through its own daily resurrection, and like the phoenix rise above its own ashes.

I would have you consider your judgment and your appetite even as you would two loved guests in your house.
Surely you would not honour one guest above the other; for he who is more mindful of one loses the love and the faith of both.

Among the hills, when you sit in the cool shade of the white poplars, sharing the peace and serenity of distant fields and meadows - then let your heart say in silence, "God rests in reason."
And when the storm comes, and the mighty wind shakes the forest, and thunder and lightning proclaim the majesty of the sky, - then let your heart say in awe, "God moves in passion."

And since you are a breath In God's sphere, and a leaf in God's forest, you too should rest in reason and move in passion.

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Librarians discussing lunch and Sally (I'm obsessed!)

The subject is when to go to Mekong for lunch and note that my boss Sally loves to use the word "duh" and so do I! I think I'm going to be a Sally when I grow up.


From: Zwirner, Gail
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 12:20 PM
To: Zwirner, Gail; Wambold, Sally; OConnor, Amy
Subject: RE: Mekong Thursday?

I can go after reference at 1:00 if it works for you.

From: OConnor, Amy
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 12:22 PM
To: Zwirner, Gail; Wambold, Sally
Subject: RE: Mekong Thursday?

Could we do Friday instead?

From: Zwirner, Gail
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 1:13 PM
To: OConnor, Amy; Wambold, Sally
Subject: RE: Mekong Thursday?

I can’t do Friday, next week? Wednesday, anytime.

From: Wambold, Sally
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 1:42 PM
To: OConnor, Amy; Zwirner, Gail
Subject: RE: Mekong Thursday?

Wednesday, January 14 at 11:30 am would be my choice. Since it’s Joyce’s b.d., maybe she would like to join us?

From: Zwirner, Gail
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 2:00 PM
To: Wambold, Sally
Subject: RE: Mekong Thursday?

She’s on reference.

From: Wambold, Sally
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 2:08 PM
To: Zwirner, Gail; OConnor, Amy
Subject: RE: Mekong Thursday?

That’s right. I relieve her at 3 pm. Duh!!!


From: OConnor, Amy
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 2:48 PM
To: Wambold, Sally; Zwirner, Gail
Subject: RE: Mekong Thursday?

Well that would have been nice if she could have. Jan. 14th at 11:30 at Mekong…adding it to my new handy, dandy 2009 calendar!

From: Wambold, Sally
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 2:50PM
To: OConnor, Amy; Zwirner, Gail
Subject: RE: Mekong Thursday?

I should whip out my calendar as well. I love the adjective Handy, dandy (truly)!

Emails with Sally


From: OConnor, Amy
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 8:18 AM
To: Janto, Joyce; Wambold, Sally
Subject: One of those mornings

Joyce,
I came into work about 15 minutes late, so would it be okay to stay later to make up that time?
My apologies,
Amy



From: Wambold, Sally
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 8:49 AM
To: OConnor, Amy
Cc: Janto, Joyce
Subject: RE: One of those mornings

Amy,

Although the question was directed to Joyce, I am okay with your staying 15 minutes late. I had one of those mornings also; I slammed my finger in the refrigerator!!!

Sally

From: OConnor, Amy
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 9:07 AM
To: Wambold, Sally
Subject: RE: One of those mornings

Oh no! I hope it wasn’t your hand that was bitten by William?
I think it took me a good ten minutes to find my keys:-/


From: Wambold, Sally
Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2009 9:23 AM
To: OConnor, Amy
Subject: RE: One of those mornings

The stories I could tell about lost keys would frizz your hair—for real!


THE END

AMY LACKEY I AM BLOGGING TOO MUCH! Where are your blogs for Jan. you are slacking and I am looking like a dork!

The Librarian



What my life could have been like and maybe still is?



Watch this AWESOME video!!

http://www.archive.org/details/Libraria1947

I want to Flamenco Dance!

Maybe I should move back to Tampa.......Naaaah I'll just go visit!















The Tampa Bay History Centerhttp://www.tampabayhistorycenter.org/ Grand opening of The Tampa Bay History CenterExactly what you didn´t expect. The Tampa Bay History Center will open its doors on Sat., Jan. 17 at 11 a.m. for a day-long celebration that includes music, flamenco dancing, cigar-rolling and historic re-enactments. The new 60,000-square-foot Center in Tampa´s bustling Channelside district features an illuminating walk through 12,000 years of powerful stories. Visitors can follow in the footsteps of the first native inhabitants, Spanish conquistadors, pioneers, presidents, sports legends and railroad tycoons. Strolling through a 1920´s-era cigar store, guests will discover maps and exhibits of the places and people who inspired generations. The four-floor Center boasts a spectacular atrium, interactive exhibits, theaters, map gallery, research center, event hall, museum store and the internationally acclaimed Columbia CafĂ©.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Fat Girl


The one thing I like about foreign films is the cultural differences a viewer can take from the people, places, languages, etc. I don't even know when I started really liking foreign films...maybe after watching movies such as Ponette (1997) and Cinema Paradiso (1988). A lot of foreign films I have rented are usually quirky and basically very unlike any American movie. This movie Fat Girl was probably one of the most disturbing films I have ever seen. I would recommend it only because of the shock value the end of the movie gives you. French films, Spanish films, Russian, etc. all have different styles and themes when it comes to the plots and characters of the movies. However, I find that a lot of them are similar because they are so unlike the movies produced here in the States. So let me know some of your favorites next time I talk to you...

Sally is back in full force!

Back at work day #1 part I-
I sent Sally a Merry Christmas text message over break and she sent one back with a picture of angel and a "Merry Christmas" back. She came into the office yesterday and thanked me for the text message I sent her and told me I was the first friend to send her a text message b/c she usually only gets text messages from the weather channel only. Apparently you can receive daily emails from the Weather Channel. So it made me happy that I was able to be the first "friend" to send her a text message, she's so sweet!

Back at work day #1 part II-
She was telling me about how William and Sunflower (her cats) are now acquainted. Mind you this is about 2 months after William finally came back home after 3 months of being declared missing. Since Sunflower is a "little pistol" and a "little firecracker" who likes to knock William off the piano bench Sally had to have a talken to Sunflower. She told Sunflower that if she keeps misbehaving she will have to send Sunflower to jail and Sunflower would not like going to jail. Then apparently Sunflower looked up at Sally as though she knew she was getting scolded for misbehaving...yep Sally really thinks he cats understand her like humans (hell what do i know, maybe the do!).

Back at work day #2-
Today Sally came into my cubicle and told me that she likes how I style my hair. When I go to work (and really just every day) my hair is either down, pulled up, or in a single braid. Today it is in a braid and apparently Sally likes this basic style so much she wanted to take a picture of me. So she took a picture of me with her camera that has film she is not sure will actually work. So if the film is bad she will buy new film and take another picture. Sally was quick to reassure me that I am not to worry that she will post my picture online b/c it is not a digital camera.

I can't tell you enough how great it is to work with someone who constantly takes me by surprise with her random actions and stories.

Monday, January 5, 2009

Madame X

"It is a study in opposition. Sargent shows a woman posing ostentatiously in a black satin dress with jeweled straps, a dress that reveals and hides at the same time. "-http://www.lynetteabel.org/Art.html


I came across this painting when I was wandering through the MET and stopped. I was struck by the beauty, confidence, and uncertainty of this woman. Once I finished contemplating the painting I for some reason felt empowered and more confident in myself as a woman. I think it's because the artist, John Singer Sargent, fully captured the essence of what a woman is. We are beautiful, strong, loving, confident, temperamental, crazy, wonderful, passionate, and insecure. The thing is, when the men we like come around a lot of us start feeling more insecure with ourselves than feeling more confident. Of course it is natural for us to feel insecure at times when we are around somebody we like a lot but if this person continues to make you feel less of a woman then maybe you need to reflect on whether this male companion is the right one for you. Surround yourself with people who make you feel good about yourself and happy about life. Make sure you are happy with yourself first and foremost. Don't fall or grovel for the man who makes you feel anything less than lovely, strong, and confident. I am writing about this because a lot of female friends of mine don't always see their own beauty, uniqueness, and strength. Some of them have fallen for the man that makes them feel silly and childish. I want to let you ladies know that you are the most head strong and beautiful women I know and I will not let any one of you step down towards seeing yourself in any type of negative manner! Stop fighting the battle with the man who is more insecure than you, let go, and be yourself. There is no sense in staying with anyone (and this is for men too) who makes you feel as though you can't be yourself. Move on and don't take shit from anyone who makes you feel less special than what you really are. Live life and love it and by portraying this positive energy the right man (or woman) will certainly come your way.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

The List


For some reason I've been thinking about how many times I've gone grocery shopping with friends. This is probably due to the holidays and lots of dinner parties and needing to make runs with friends. I realized how much fun it is to go to the grocery store with friends! The whole experience of shopping for food with friends adds a whole new perspective because of the conversations and laughs that transpire from the trip. I've gone grocery shopping with plenty of friends and decided I wanted to start making a list of those friends who I've gone shopping with, just to see how long it gets. I don't think I want to go grocery shopping by myself anymore because it is just not the same. I actually hate grocery shopping but if I go with friends it's allll good!

The List and why:

Amy L.-BBQ's and kitty litter

Ashley-Just because we both needed to go and Trader Joe's
Amanda-To look at puppies at Whole Foods and then to eat free samples and buy gelato

Desiree-Beach (which is where the picture above came from) and weekly dinner/movie night

Daniel-Monument 10K brunch and BBQ's

Emily-Roommate

Aaron-NYE

Gillian-NYE

Sarah -Dinner party (Big Ham, *wink*)

Jolinda-Dinner party

Bridget-Roommate

Mike-BBQ's and Beach


These are people I can recently think of going with, I know I'll be adding more to the list. So if you want to go shopping together for groceries give a girl a call because we can make it fun!